Before Melania, there was Ivana. And before Melania, there was Marla Maples—the Southern beauty queen whose whirlwind romance and controversial marriage to Donald Trump captivated America in the 1990s. Their union, splashed across tabloids and whispered about at dinner parties, seemed destined for drama. But what really went wrong behind the scenes of one of America’s most public love stories?

After 20 Years, Marla Maples Confirms Why She Divorced Donald Trump

A Romance Born in Controversy

Marla Maples, a Georgia-born actress and television personality, entered Donald Trump’s life in the late 1980s—while he was still married to his first wife, Ivana Trump. Their relationship wasn’t a closely guarded secret. Instead, it was highly publicized, fueling tabloid headlines and sparking national debate. For over four years, the Trump-Maples affair played out in the public eye, culminating in Trump’s divorce from Ivana in 1990.

One headline from the New York Post in February 1990 captured the nation’s attention: Marla reportedly boasted to friends about her relationship with Trump, igniting a media frenzy. The Trump-Ivana divorce, already a front-page story, now had a new leading lady.

But the real drama unfolded in Aspen, Colorado, in December 1989. According to Ivana’s memoir, Raising Trump, Marla approached Ivana during a ski trip and introduced herself, saying, “I’m Marla, and I love your husband. Do you?” Ivana’s response was swift: “Get lost. I love my husband.” That encounter, Ivana later said, confirmed her marriage was over.

A Lavish Wedding, a Fragile Foundation

After Trump’s divorce from Ivana was finalized in 1990—with a settlement reportedly including millions in cash and luxury real estate—he and Marla continued their relationship. In December 1993, they tied the knot at the Plaza Hotel in New York City, owned by Trump at the time. Over 1,000 guests attended, including celebrities and business tycoons.

But beneath the glamour, cracks were already showing. Before the wedding, Trump insisted on a strict prenuptial agreement. Details later leaked to the press revealed Marla would receive $1 million if the marriage ended within five years, plus another $1 million to buy a house. By comparison, Ivana’s settlement was over $25 million. Marla later told Vanity Fair that she felt pressured into signing the prenup, believing she and Trump would revisit the terms later—a conversation that never happened.

Celebrity divorce attorneys at the time speculated that the prenup set an uneasy tone for the marriage. As one put it, “I can’t think of greater coercion than a woman having a baby in her belly and a man saying, ‘I won’t marry you unless you sign.’”

After 20 Years, Marla Maples Confirms Why She Divorced Donald Trump

From “Happily Ever After” to Tabloid Turmoil

The birth of their daughter, Tiffany, in October 1993 was a turning point. Trump’s reaction, as he later recalled on “The Howard Stern Show,” was less than enthusiastic: “Excuse me, what happened?” He eventually warmed to fatherhood, but the moment revealed underlying tensions.

Marla has since said that their differences became more pronounced as the marriage went on. Trump, raised in a competitive, business-driven family in Queens, was focused on building his empire. Marla, raised in a modest, religious household in Georgia, valued faith, kindness, and emotional connection.

“Donald and I came from two completely different worlds,” Marla reflected in a later interview. “I wanted a partner who could truly see me and support me emotionally. But Donald was often preoccupied with his empire, his image, and his ambitions.”

Their 17-year age gap, contrasting backgrounds, and diverging priorities proved difficult to overcome. Marla felt isolated and misunderstood, while Trump’s relentless pursuit of success left little room for compromise or shared pursuits.

Scandal on the Beach: The Bodyguard Rumor

If the marriage was already on shaky ground, a scandal in 1996 may have tipped it over the edge. That April, police responded to Mar-a-Lago, Trump’s Florida estate, where they reportedly found Marla and Trump’s bodyguard, Spencer Wagner, together on a deserted beach at 4 a.m. Both denied any wrongdoing, calling the incident a misunderstanding. But the story exploded in the tabloids, and four months later, Wagner was fired.

After his dismissal, Wagner told a tabloid that he and Marla had been “making out” on the beach—though his ex-wife later insisted he always denied any affair. The incident took a toll on Wagner, who struggled to find work afterward and sadly passed away in 2012.

Trump and Marla both denied the allegations, but the damage was done. The media frenzy and rumors of infidelity further strained their marriage.

The Final Split and Life After Trump

Donald Trump's ex-wife Marla Maples was reportedly 'under duress' over  prenup - NZ Herald

By 1997, the writing was on the wall. Marla and Trump separated, finalizing their divorce in 1999. Marla later spoke candidly about the breakup, citing their differences in values and outlook: “It could get a little bit combative, as you could have imagined, because I came in with Georgia family values and a strong sense of spiritual growth. Always wanted to be the best I can, and he came with his positive ability to see the world, make money, and get out there.”

She admitted that, like many young women, she thought she could change him: “Girls in their twenties always want to change the man they are with and make him a little softer. And although I was like that initially, I eventually learned how to speak out stronger for what I believe in.”

After the divorce, Marla largely stepped away from the spotlight, focusing on raising Tiffany and pursuing wellness, acting, and television projects. Trump, meanwhile, continued to grow his real estate empire and, in 2005, married Melania Knauss.

A Marriage Doomed by Differences and Public Scrutiny

Looking back, it’s clear that Marla Maples and Donald Trump’s marriage was shaped—and ultimately undone—by a combination of personal differences, relentless media attention, and public scandal. Their story remains a cautionary tale of how fame, fortune, and mismatched priorities can turn even the most glamorous fairy tale into tabloid fodder.

As Marla once summed up, “We were living parallel lives, not a shared one.” And for all the headlines, that quiet truth may have been the most important factor of all.